In this dream an unrequited love who passed away earlier this year, was in it, except he was as a female and we were holding what felt like an intervention for her toxic and possibly abusive relationship. We were all trying to make her see she deserved better. She was not receiving our views and she was speaking but there was music playing (I had music playing on my phone in reality) and I couldn't hear her. I was trying to turn the music down but it wouldn't turn down. In my dream I was vaguely aware that this was my passed friend and didn't understand why he was a she.
Dreams involving loved ones, especially those who have passed away, often reflect our emotions and unresolved feelings related to them. In your dream, the presence of your unrequited love who has passed away suggests that you're processing your grief and feelings for them, still navigating the impact of their loss in your life.
The fact that they appeared as a woman may represent a few things. It might symbolize a different facet of their personality or highlight qualities that you believe they embodied, such as sensitivity, nurturing, or vulnerability. Alternatively, it could also indicate a merging of emotions and identities, emphasizing the deep connection you felt with this person, regardless of gender.
Holding an intervention for her toxic relationship symbolizes your desire to help and protect those you care about, reflecting the empathy and compassion you may have towards your friend—or perhaps even an extension of those feelings onto yourself. It suggests that you recognize patterns or behaviors in your own life that are harmful, and you may be grappling with a need to advocate for yourself or others in similar situations.
The difficulty in hearing your friend during the intervention, despite trying to turn down the music, can be interpreted in several ways. It may signify a feeling of helplessness in conveying your thoughts or feelings, either to the friend in the dream or in your own life. The music represents distractions or outside influences that may be overshadowing more important messages—whether that’s grief, unresolved feelings, or the need to prioritize your own wellbeing.
Overall, this dream likely reflects your ongoing processing of loss, your desires to understand and support those you love, and the struggle to communicate and prioritize what truly matters to you amidst distractions. It might be a call to focus on your healing and encourage positive changes in your life, just as you sought to do for your friend in the dream.